Online the age is usually there for me to see. When I get hit up, and that means either online or when out, I look at whether I find whoever's doing it attractive enough to make it likely I'll like sex with them. They hit me up and I decide if I want to go forward. Some, yes, but not many.Ībout "hitting up" younger guys, I rarely hit anyone up. I don't usually find the 50+ crowd and a lot of the 40-50 crowd attractive. Conversely, some of those guys are pretty judgmental about big age differences.įor me, it's attraction. It is sometimes fascinating to hear comments about how handsome someone is at 65 when I'm not seeing it the same way. Some of my older friends are clearly only into men their own age. There is some extra excitement in a group scene that either helps my erection or makes it less important. Why would I set myself up for failure? If the guy wants me to bottom, his age might be less important to me, but I'd also be considering that he might suffer some of the effects of aging similarly or that he might use Viagra or the like.Ī weird exception is that I'm more likely to engage in a 3-way with 2 or more older men without any younger men being present. When I'm with an attractive guy, I don't have erectile issues.
That attraction is in some ways tied to sexual function. There are fewer men over 50 that I find attractive enough to pursue. The short answer for me is "occasionally." I find I have not been seeking out men over 50, but I've never been in that habit anyway. I just turned 50 this year, so some of this is just my experience and opinion.